Some guys are stupid.
I do not understand why some guys just get into "crush" mode and never fail to commit stupid acts repeatedly. There are just so many over the head nonsense and crazy "romance" displayed through friends around me. One from school, one from my closer group of friends and another closer to heart.
Some men, when they THINK they like someone, and especially when the someone doesn't show or act ignorant, plainly trying to be hard to get. They simply fail to see clearly somehow or another. No matter how hard true friends and all try to ask them to get over her. Maybe its just like the chinese idiom, onlookers are clear to what they see, and those in it just don't see where we're coming from.
Well, maybe some men are obstinate. And it doesn't help when there's so many local/worldwide saga on extramarital affairs. The contrast on how some men can go after one by being so dumb, and yet some can just throw away their marriage after many efforts in courtship by having affairs. Reading today's papers make me feel that maybe people are never really satisfied, we focus too much on what we do not have, rather than what we already have.
*But yup, I do know not all are like that, but the some are always MAGNIFIED and makes you focus on how bad the state of our world is. I believe that I live in a rather sheltered world, but I think I am happy and do not see the need of knowing how ugly the people of the world may be.
Maybe we should try to focus on things that we have and be more contented. To know how much the your family and loved ones actually love you, and try not to hurt them.
